Come, Lord Jesus, and heal my wife. Amen.
A place to find hope and share pain in the struggles of chronic illness within the framework of Christian existence. I welcome the sufferers and those who try help them ("the strong ones"). Both suffer horribly from the ravages of chronic illness such as fibromyagia, chronic fatigue, lupus, and more. Perhaps we can minister to one another.
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Yes, and No
Wisdom knows
when to gaze,
and when to avert the eyes.
When to listen,
and when to muffle the ears.
When to touch,
and when to pull way untouched.
When to embrace,
and when to turn away.
When to ponder the past,
and when to inhabit the present fully.
Each thing, time, place
in its own measure.
Only God
can bear to know
all things
as they are--
and know them aright.
when to gaze,
and when to avert the eyes.
When to listen,
and when to muffle the ears.
When to touch,
and when to pull way untouched.
When to embrace,
and when to turn away.
When to ponder the past,
and when to inhabit the present fully.
Each thing, time, place
in its own measure.
Only God
can bear to know
all things
as they are--
and know them aright.
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Holidays and Happiness
Holidays can be especially unhappy for many. The chronically ill may feel an intensified expectation to be merry and celebrate when they can do neither. This adds a sense of guilt to their already-miserable state. The spouses of those afflicted have similar feelings, and feel the sad weight of obligation placed on "the healthy one."
Consider these poor souls during the holidays. (1) Don't expect them to be happy. (2) Love them no matter how they feel. (3) Serve them in ways appropriate to their limits; that is, do not expect them to meet your conditions for gift. You may love to dine out, while they cannot do it. If so, bring them food or ask them what they need. (4) Pray for them, trying to put yourself in their place.
Sunday, December 4, 2011
Friday, December 2, 2011
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